Monday, January 18, 2010

M I N D S E T
























As my friend was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a rope tied to their legs. It was obvious that the elephants could, at any time, break away from the ropes they were tied to but for some reason, they could not. My friend saw a trainer nearby and asked why these beautiful, magnificent animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.

"Well", he said, "when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them at that age, it's enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free". My friend was amazed. These animals could at any point of time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn't, they were stuck right where they were. The powerful and gigantic creature has limited its present abilities by the limitations of its past.
Like the elephants, how many of us go through life holding onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before? How many of us refuse to attempt something new and challenging because of our so called M I N D S E T?

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Ghadyalaat vajle ...

Lahan pani shalet asatana shikavaleli kavita ... one of my favs :-)

Ghadyalaat vajala 1, aaine kela cake
cake khanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 2, babancha aala phone
phone var bolnyat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 3, taichi haravali peen
peen shodhanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 4, aaine dila maar
musu musu radanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 5, taine kela naach
naach baghanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 6, aaine kela chaha
chaha pinyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajala 7, aaine kela bhaat
bhaat khanyat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 8, futla aamcha maath
pani pusanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 9, khidakitoon ali mau
mau shi khelanyaat ek taas gela me nahi abhyas kela

Ghadyalaat vajale 10, amacha abhyas paha !

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Welcome 2010?

This year new year eve was a special one. Very different from all others. I was in the bed at 10 pm and didn't even bother to welcome the new year.
The next day I was wondering why would I ever do that? I am a lively person and would not leave any chance of celebration. This made me think for a while. And I realised that I would actually love to celebrate my every new year in the similar way, no music, no celebration, calm and quiet.
What is so special about the eve? Its just that the calender changes. My life was the same on 1st Jan as it was on 31st Dec. So why treat 31st eve so special? Some people might be making new year resolutions and yes, that can be one reason to celebrate. But resolutions is not my piece of cake. So why should I be so happy about the new year huh? ...

Still thinking ...

Thursday, December 24, 2009

UK-Part 1

On the 12th Sept 2009 I landed on Gatwick airport. The one thing that immediately caught my eye was that it was filled with 80% brown people which made me more relieved.

I went to the immigration counter and was ready to answer hell lot of their questions, but I was surprised to be wrong. The officer over the counter seeing my Indian passport started talking to me in Hindi! I answered him in Hindi while looking at his name on his uniform. He looked English so there was no scope of him being a desi! I was correct in my analysis as his name turned out to be Jeff. He was ok with all my documents, allowed me entry and to my surprise came out of his cabin to have a chat with me. He handed over his job to some lady.

Jeff had spent his quarter life in Calcutta, India. He was brought up in MP and loved India like most of the Indians do. He escorted me to the baggage claim and then to arrivals. For the next 30 mins he was reciting his life in India. This is was first impression of UK and I rated it per my analysis. Wow! I was never given such a warm welcome anywhere neither in my country and of course nor in the US.

We came out of the airport to ride a bus home. The bus was due in 3 mins and it arrived in 3 minutes. I was awestruck. The next day I was gathering information on the local public transport and realized that these guys have a really really strong public transport network.

The house that we were staying was a duplex with kitchen and living room on ground level and bedrooms on the first. Most of the houses provide piped gas, which is actually good for Indian cooking. The trend is to rent a furnished apartment which is a boon to the tenants as they have to buy hardly any stuff. A lot many people have more than one apartment and are generally into estate agency. Recently we moved into our new apartment thru a similar guy. He owns 5 apartments and rents all of them. He’s making big money out of it.

Where ever I go, it’s critical for me (being a veggie) to check out the food stuff. UK surprised me with that too. A branch of WAL-MART called ASDA is widely spread all over UK. You get besan, lentils, papad and what not in this store. Even the Pizza hut serves a wide range of veggie pizzas. I am lovin it!

You ought to see lot of Indians, Pakistanis and Bangladeshis in this country. A lot of Europeans too. With what I have seen until now, I am not yet ready to conclude anything about this country, but would definitely pass a comment. This country will make you comfortable to live in from day 1. Let’s hope the comment becomes a conclusion as days progress.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Make over

Make over?
You might have heard this term numerous times, especially from the female crowd. A Girl/woman will say that she needs a make over in umpteen situations, and I tell you, you will never be able to understand when :) …. that’s her!
So let me tell you some of the many situations that make us feel that we need a make over …
1. We realize that we are not being as much attended as we used to be.
We know when we are paid attention and when we are ignored and mind it .. we are very meticulous about it. We know how to grab attention. So … we will go for a make over when we want a change in our selves … for you ppl to notice us … Ya I know… but we do pay attention to what people think about us.
2. We are too much engrossed in some deep but silly thinking and even if we want we are not able to come out of it. In a nutshell, we are thinking so much that we decide not to think and go for a ‘make over’.. :) . This is just another way for us to divert our thought process. We feel that we are too much busy with so many things and are really not taking care of ourselves. Hence we think the make over will change our thinking.. hehe .. that’s silly I know .. but ya … that’s us again … But you know what .. sometimes it really works.. and we are out of our weird thinking ..
3. We are in real sense tired of being the same old us. We realize that just visiting a beauty salon once a while is just not what we want. We are actually taking care of ourselves, but still we are bored of the same look. This is the most common case. So what do we do? We decide to change ourselves head to toe. And once done, we like the changed us :) . The feeling is just too awesome to describe. When we get a new look we are full of energy, zest and pep.


The make over for us is just not the physical change .. that u ppl notice. It’s an utter transformation for us. As much as we look ‘changed’ from outside, we feel healthier and better-off from within. Just to let you know … I have recently had one :)

Friday, April 4, 2008

Man ....

Eka haravalelya mitrala saad mhnaun ...

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Man hota kadhi itka sunder .. ki pahat basavasa vatta
Man hota kadhi bandakhor ... ki gappa karavasa vatta
Man hota kadhi itka mau ... ki radat basavasa vatta
Man hota kadhi mastikhor .. ki bebhaan houn jata

Man hota kadhi itka shahana .. ki 'shabbas' mhanavasa vatta tevhach
Man hota itka vait ... ki chidoon ragavavasa vatta
Man hota kadhi itka kadak ... ki mukatyane aikavasa vatta tevhach
Man hota itka chanchal .. ki door door gheun jata

Man houn kadhi guru .. khup kahi shikavoon jata
Man neun kadhi swapnaat .. thodasa virangula deun jata
Man athavoon gamti jamti ... thodasa hasavoon jata
Man sangoon kadhi chuka ... ragavoon, bajaoon jata

Man maagat asta sanwaad ... pratyek kshan
Manala hava aahe pramanik ... pratyek kan ....
Mag ... Man deil apli saath .. paus ani oon
Man dharel apala haath ... kateri rastyatoon

Friday, March 30, 2007

The game of mistakes




There are many times in our life, where we feel that we committed a ‘mistake’ and then we repent for doing it. No one escapes from such phases of life. It can be a very small fault or a big misstep.


Whenever we do anything, right or wrong, there are two players that control our actions. Mind and heart. The dominance of one over the other, decides the destination of our actions. Mind thinks practically and is generally the unwavering of the two. Heart is emotional and fragile and gullible. To make things work correctly, these two should portray their authority in the respective situations.

So what should be categorized as a mistake? There is no such rule which will say that if I do this then I am at fault or if I do not do this I am wrong.
By the end of day, if I stand in front of the mirror and I am able to make an eye contact with my image, without fear, then I say that I am safe. But if I fail in that, then there’s something fishy.


What if I did something wrong today and it is bothering me a lot. What should I do now? Should I sit and cry for doing it …. Or I should just forget it as if nothing had happened … Again come the two players of the game. Your heart says that you have done something incredibly wrong whereas the mind is smart and tries to save you from the sin.

But there’s a fork to the situation, which is I think a mean of the two. Don’t get drowned in the so called ‘sin’, nor be too casual and relaxed about your action. Try to find out the root cause. Try to know the reason behind your action. No action is done without a reason. So try to reach the root. Once you do that you will be definitely be satisfied and relieved. And once you realize the reason, you are in a better position to guide yourself. When I sit down and know the trigger of my mistake, I am half relieved. At least I know the reason of my fault. Now the next step is not to think over it again and again. What you do is thing over it only once, full fledged. Cry if you want to, but only once. Make it clear to your mind and heart that ‘boss you have done it once, it has cost you like anything. If you do it again, you know where you will end up. Come what may you will never ever repeat it’.


Your heart and mind, both are sensible enough to understand the intensity and importance of this talk. And they will take care that you never fall in such a painful situation again!


Try it once ..